First Name *

Last Name *

Email *

When it comes to managing household tasks, who usually takes the lead? *

Me—I’m the planner, organizer, and doer.

We try to split things, but I still handle more.

We both take full ownership of our responsibilities.

Your partner notices the trash is full. What happens next? *

They keep stuffing more in until I take it out.

They’ll take it out… after I remind them.

They take it out because it’s their responsibility.

How often do you feel like you have to remind (or nag) your partner about tasks? *

All. The. Time.

Occasionally, but they’ll get to it… eventually.

Almost never—we each own our tasks.

Who keeps track of things like doctor’s appointments, school emails, and birthday gifts? *

Me—I’m the human calendar and reminder system.

Mostly me, but my partner helps here and there.

We have a system, and we each own different responsibilities.

How do you and your partner decide who does what around the house? *

I do most things by default—it just happens that way.

We talk about it, but it’s not always evenly divided.

We have clear roles, and both of us take full ownership.

When it comes to planning and organizing (vacations, holidays, school schedules, etc.), who takes the lead? *

Me—I handle all the details, from packing lists to booking flights.

Mostly me, but my partner helps when I ask.

We split the planning and each take full ownership of certain tasks.

When a household task needs to be done (like paying a bill or calling a repair service), what usually happens?

I notice it, remember it, and handle it.

I bring it up, and my partner will do it—eventually.

If it’s my partner’s responsibility, I trust them to handle it without reminders.

How do you and your partner handle last-minute schedule changes (like a sick kid or a work emergency)?

I drop everything and figure it out.

We talk about it, but it usually falls on me.

We both adjust and share the responsibility fairly.

If you had to step away from home for a week, how confident are you that everything would run smoothly?

Not confident at all—I’d come back to total chaos.

Somewhat confident—things might get done, but I’d get a lot of questions.

Very confident—we each know what needs to be done and take full responsibility.

How often do you feel under appreciated for what you do at home? *

Constantly—I feel invisible sometimes.

Occasionally, but I know they try.

Rarely—we both recognize and appreciate each other’s efforts.

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